To us, to dishonor means to fail to respect someone.
What are the ways in which we dishonor others?
When we are overbearing, arrogant, patronizing, hostile, abusive, intimidating, unreasonably critical or humiliating someone, we are dishonoring them.

People who experience this do not deserve this and it is not a reflection of who they are but rather a reflection of the person who is dishing out this behaviour.
Why do they do this?
Have you experienced this in your relationship or marriage? This is toxic behaviour and definitely a red flag.
Then there are those who are self seeking. Do not mistake this for selfishness. They are two very different things.
Being a self seeker is when you do things that benefit you. You can do good things or bad things but it all depends on how much it will boost you up.
This is not a good quality to have. It shows a lack of respect and sincerity in a person.

Love & Respect are synonymously intertwined. You cannot have one without the other.